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Entering a new phase

It is that time of year; rest, rejuvenate, reflect 🌟

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A lot has been up in the air for me lately. This is the time of year that the world prepares to take a break. The cooler weather brings with it a time where all the plants and animals prepare to hunker down and rest for the winter.

While the natural world prepares to shut down I find this is a perfect time to reflect on what is going on in my life. It is a good time to examine where I am, where I want to be and how I can get there.

As things are changing and upheaval seems likely I have to take the time to determine what my next step will be. I have made a lot of changes in the last year and that has lined me up for what I am facing now.

I published my series a little over a year ago. I…

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Back In The Saddle


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Well, here I am, finally. It’s been a long while, and my hand hurts from writing instead of typing. Most online interactions are via phone, and that’s not easy, nor is typing on this nextbook keyboard lol

It’s the season of change, the year of abundance, and it’s time, my friends.

It’s time to Rise and Shine like the Phoenix you Are.

It’s time to Awaken, and to self empower, and claim that which is rightfully yours.

Been allowing someone to take advantage? You don’t have to be a door mat to be nice. Givers must set the boundary and limits, for the Users never will. They will take much more than your time. They’ll find insidious ways of draining you of energy, time, and yes, that Moxy that gives our kind the energy, authority, and mysticism that comes with the practice. That’s right, Witch Craft. Thought forms. Sigils. Servitors. Poppets. Herbal Alchemy. Alchemy. Magic.


That for which we are the Channel and not the Source. Whatever your main path and following, there is I believe one thing, at least I like to think, that we all have in common; the wish to feel and be worthy. To feel empowered, bold, and ourselves. Freely.

I have been working on many different workings, because I believe we’ve come to be in the Age of Abundance. I’m not just talking money either, though economically I know it looks bad; but what if abundance isn’t just about monetary value? What if abundance isn’t so much of having a lot of something, but how you utilize your resources? I’ve come to find, for me, that focusing on the Solution to the problem, instead of the problem of the Problem, Is the Solution.

What’s the old saying? Please, seriously correct me if I’m wrong, it’s been a coon’s age and I don’t always remember correctly lol, anyway: “The problem isn’t the problem, the problem is your attitude about the problem.”? I’ve learned that I am a powerful witch in my own right, not for bragging rights, but because I have learned to be a little more confident, and this is one of my stipulations; I give credit where it is due, especially to myself. I spent a lot of my life repeating what I was told, “it’s never good enough, no effort is too large, if you love them you’ll figure it out”. Not anymore.

No one, and I mean *no one*, should ever expect you to be unhappy for their happiness. That is just wrong on so many friggin levels, it’s not even funny. But people get away with this crap, abusing any kindness until it becomes a duty and an obligation, that they expect you to meet, regardless what you have going on in your own life.

My advice: put their name on paper, dampen with water, and stick those bitches in the freezer. This doesn’t cause them harm, but does freeze the negative effects and the havoc they try to wreak in retaliation. You should never have to explain yourself, for anything, unless you volunteer info, it is none of anyone else’s business why you said no. I’ve come to notice, not only do people over explain, *a lot*, they fully expect to inject themselves into your life, and drop footnotes like it’s their friggin business. Strangers, friends, family, doesn’t matter. Users are users. You can love family and still not deal with the junk they try to carry with them.

Drop it all and let it go. Make it a talisman and bury it outside. Better yet, make a growable mojo bag, where you do a spell dropping dead weight, the things holding you back, and add plant seeds; you’ve successfully released the problem to be transmuted by earth energies (burying), and added a boost to your New Intention (growing) As the plant grows, so too will your Momentum, Desire, and Stamina to grow, learn, and rise above. I hope I didn’t leave anything hanging, if there are any readers; apologies. ^_^ lol

The Accountability Pact

Take a good look: Do you need an Accountability Pact?

I’ll be writing my own blogs again soon, soo just some re-blogs for now. ^_^ Next goal: PC.

Lucy and Life

AccountabilityMy editor rang yesterday and I cringed when I saw her number appear on my iPhone.

It wasn’t because Kristy is a horrible person – she is in fact, completely awesome. But I knew she’d ask about my editing and I would have to tell the truth…that I had barely started.

If you’ve been reading my blog for a while, you’ll know I’ve been working on a memoir for a few years now. I’m currently in the home stretch – I just need to finish editing and then publish it. All the words are there. They just need (as Kristy puts it) ‘a little tweaking’.

But I’ve been stuck for a couple of months.

I could give you a few reasonably valid reasons for my inertia during this time. For example, there’s my recovery from a break-up and another writing project I started just before New Years that now sits…

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All Wiccans Are Witches. Period.

Face hurts… Can’t….. Stop….. Smiling LOL ❤😊


Every day online, people are being bombarded with misinformation. From the Westboro Baptist Church to Fox News to ex-gay reparative therapy success stories like Michelle Bachman’s husband, the world is full of people who will lie to you because they desperately want to believe in the bullshit they’re spouting. It’s just a part of human nature, and it’s something that we, as witches, need to remain aware of. Sometimes people say untrue things to your face, and don’t even know that they are lying.

Take a five year old who tells you that Santa is coming to his house on Christmas to drop off gifts. It’s adorable. It’s cute. It’s something his parents told him on purpose. It’s not his fault that he believes it, because he’s five years old. Well, that’s the same as when people say “I’m Wiccan, but I don’t practice witchcraft. You can be Wiccan and…

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Consent: Not Actually That Complicated

Simply. Put.

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A short one today as my life is currently very complicated and conspiring against my preference to spend all of my days working out what to blog. But do you know what isn’t complicated?


It’s been much discussed recently; what with college campuses bringing in Affirmative Consent rules, and with the film of the book that managed to make lack of consent look sexy raking it in at the box office. You may not know this, but in the UK we more or less have something similar to ‘affirmative consent’ already. It’s how Ched Evans was convicted while his co-defendant was not – and is along the lines of whether the defendant had a reasonable belief that the alleged victim consented. From the court documents it appears that while the jury felt that it was reasonable to believe that the victim had consented to intercourse with the co-defendant, it…

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The Language of God

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“Silence is the language of God.  All else is poor translation.”  Rumi

If I could point to one single thing that has been my greatest guide, teacher, healer and solace in the past few years it would be developing a meditation practice.  For quite some time I had read about the benefits of meditation to overall physical and mental health and would think to myself “gosh I should really learn how to do that.”  Somehow it seemed like it must be really difficult.  Shouldn’t I have a guru?  And sitting in that lotus position for more than 3 minutes made me dead from the waist down, legs completely asleep.

But then life happened and things got pretty intense.  I had struggled with minor anxiety for many years, occasionally having bouts of panic attacks, but had always been able to muscle through them without any…

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If It Ever Gets That Bad (What People With Depression Want You To Know)


A Morning Grouch

Everyone who has battled with depression has their own analogy for it and for me, it’s drowning. I’ve been riding high and dry the last few years but after Baby Grouch Number Two was born, I was swiftly sucked out to sea in a riptide. It happened quickly, a sharp jerk that startled and surprised me. Because, we’re always surprised when it comes back, aren’t we?  We always think it’s gone for good because we are strong and capable and we really don’t have anything to be sad about, anyway. We’ve got it all. Except no matter what, it creeps back in, like a looping vine ruining the landscaping in the backyard that we can never get rid of, even with the strongest of weed killers.

Every depressive sometimes considers how they might end it, if it got bad enough. It might just be a flicker of a thought…

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The “Divine Events” Were a Divine Success…

This Is Who I AM

On Friday, September 26, 2014, I led a Divinely Discounted “Divine Prosperity Event,” and last Friday, October 3, 2014, I led a Divinely Discounted “Divine Love Healing Event,” my first one in more than two years.

If I do say so myself, both Events were quite successful.  I was honored to see the Energy Shifts that took place for all the participants in less than a week.

Furthermore, it gave me the opportunity to utilize a new Sacred Tool in my Psychic Practice, as well as my personal Spiritual Practice.  Said Sacred Tool, specifically, a Prayer Urn, was created by a Goddess-Graced and Angelically-Ascending Artist named Jama Young.  What she creates is beyond beautiful!

Now, most of you know that I spend as little time on Facebook as possible, and yet, every once in a while, I see something really wonderful on Facebook that totally captivates my attention (and sometimes…

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I Feel My Cards A-Callin’


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Well, I’m finally back. I’m not sure anyone missed me, but that’s okay. 🙂

For my birthday this year (I’ll let y’all guess at that one. *wink wink), I got my lil tattoo I wanted, and also my Halloween Oracles. I’d been salivating over this deck for a few months, and reserved myself a deck ahead of time with a $5 layaway. Luckily, she held it for me. Last I knew she was down to one deck, but I get the feeling it’s likely gone to its final owner, seeing as how she can’t seem to get anymore from lewellyn. By the by, these cards are something! I’ve always been of a firm belief that, in owning cards, you cannot read for yourself. I believed, and most often I was right, that the cards either couldn’t show you, or you couldn’t see. I kept insisting on this even when Pandora (my local witch shop owner, mentor, and friend) was telling me different.

So, when I got these cards, I decided to give it a go with an easy three card spread.


And everything I have EVER believed about personal readings for thyself was blown the fuck away.

These cards told me, in no uncertain terms, exactly what I needed to know. It. Was. Amazing. It all wasn’t what I thought I Wanted to know; but it was what I Needed. In-cred-ible. Period.


The reason for this particular blog is………..drum roll please!…….


Free three card reading anyone?

In the reading, three cards are drawn (obviously), but in each there is meaning. #1 will reveal the heart of the problem/issue at hand. #2 The Challenge, and #3 The Solution.

If you’re interested, please comment below. It doesn’t have to be your question. We will set aside a mutual time, that you will project your question, and I will draw the cards. If you’d prefer your card spread stay personal, let me know. I will activate comment moderation in which you put down your email, and I use it to send results only. I will not use someone’s email for marketing purposes, ever. Unless you specifically request a service from from me, that will be the only contact we have. After obtaining email, I will delete comment during moderation. If it’s all the same to you, I will post reading in replies. After all, this is your reading. No one can really know what it particularly pertains to anyway. Only you will, in being the only one who knows what the hell the question was to begin with. 😉


Feel free to reblog, with the stipulation if wanting a card reading, to please post to original.

May the gods find you in good times and bring you happy tidings!

As Above and So Below.

So Be It!